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Looking for free trans chats that actually help you meet like-minded people in a meaningful way? Well, your search ends here. Reviews don’t lie: we’re the most loved transgender chat app for a reason.
We’re here to help you safely find community without judgment, with folks who completely understand where you’re coming from.
We prioritize community in each and every feature we build. With over 35 different communities inside the app, you can find others to chat with about everything. It’s like a chat room for trans folks, but even better- and yes, it’s completely free!
With no shortage of people, chatting is instant
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Join one of our vibrant 35+ LGBTQIA+ community groups.
Connect and chat with like-minded friends and partners in your area
We get it- finding a safe space online can be a struggle. You’ve swiped until your fingers hurt, thrown your phone in frustration at constant paywalls, and then, just when you think you’ve made a connection, you get hit with a single “wyd” before they vanish into thin air. We’ve been there, and frankly, we are tired of it. So, we created a welcoming platform where connecting with other trans people has never been easier.
Our inclusive trans chat app lets you personalize every part of your profile so you can show off the most authentic version of yourself right from the start. Unlike mainstream apps that cater to a cisgender, heteronormative crowd, we let you highlight your hobbies, connect your Spotify and Instagram, and add tons of other fun details that make you uniquely you.
Messaging on HER is always unlimited, and always free (looking at you, Taimi app!). We also host community focused events both online and IRL created with trans folks in mind. Our most distinct feature (sorry not sorry, we’re obsessed with it) is our colorful Pride Pins that you can use to not only decorate your profile, but make it stand out and make your intentions clear. Did we mention that you can filter by Pride Pins for free too?
Nervous about messaging that cute barista that you saw in the transgender support chat? Starting a conversation has never been smoother. We’ve all been there- starting a chat can be terrifying! But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with our icebreaker questions designed to take the pressure off and help you dive into more genuine chats without the stress. We’re in your corner every step of the way!
If you’re like us, then internet safety is at the top of your mind. The safety of our LGBTQ+ means everything to us, and we want to do all that we can to make sure that the connections that you’re making with sapphic sweethearts are authentic and genuine.
Not to brag, but our Trust & Safety team is pretty incredible. If you’re ever feeling uncomfortable about messages that someone is sending or if you’re seeing any phobic content on the app (which, might we add, is completely against our rules: TERFs aren’t welcome here!), you can report or block a profile at any time. Each and every report is investigated by our safety team so that we can take action to keep the community a supportive, uplifting environment.
Want to be sure the girl you’re vibing with is legit? Just check for the verified checkmark ✅ next to her name. That mark means our awesome team has confirmed she’s real, so you can feel good about making authentic connections. Oh, and a pro tip: verified profiles get 4x more matches, so maybe get yourself verified too! 😉
Sometimes you just need a break. Or maybe, you’re not currently in a place where you can safely have your profile displayed to the public. We totally understand you want to keep things a bit private, and we have your safety and comfort on the top of our list. This is why we also have an easy to enable Incognito Mode that lets you only be seen by the folks that you want to be seen by. It’s 100% in your control, whenever you’re ready.
“I actually came out as a transgender male early this year. But I met Miya, a beautiful kind soul who loves me for me on Her and we now get to spend forever together because of this app.”
“Bailey has recently come out as Non-Binary Trans, and I love them just the same. This has been the best year and a half of my life, and I look forward to many, many more.”
“We messaged a few times about tattoos and thinking each other were cute, and then we met for dinner at a rooftop bar in Hollywood. We spend that first night together, and were monogamous by the third date. We are a trans woman/cis woman couple.”
As part of the LGBTQIA+ gang, we have to stick together like honey in a pot, and for us, that means maintaining a safe environment for all users, including our trans babes. At HER, the only wicked we know are the tarot girlies and defying gravity witches, our app it’s no place for exclusionary agendas.
Our fabulous team of moderators keeps an eye on every community to make sure rules are followed and rights are respected. One of the perks of being an HER user is that you can report any suspicious profile that crosses your path, and we’ll take care of the rest. 😉
For example, if you see a profile with no pictures or little-to-no information, that’s a lurker, and we like to keep them out for the safety of our community. No meanies, no bullies, no fakes, no chasers, and absolutely no transphobes.
It is truly important for us that you feel comfortable, so we hope to see you join us and enjoy the wonderful space we’ve built together.
Well, yes and no. Every member is part of the so-called alphabet mafia, but since at HER we celebrate diversity and inclusion, there are plenty of communities for all interests. We want our people to connect not only for their differences with the rest of the world but for the quirks and talents they have in common with each other too.
Want to talk about the latest french flick you watched? Check out ‘movies & tv shows’. How about comparing birth charts and finding other leo moons? Then head straight up (or gay up) to ‘astrology, horoscopes & tarot’. We can’t forget what you’re here for: ‘trans women’, ‘trans men’, and ‘nonbinary community’ are waiting for you to join!
And just like that, to quote our beloved Carrie, you can find your new squad within our 35+ amazing forums.
Abso-freaking-lutely! From the baby queers to the most seasoned of us, everyone is welcome to join and interact with others.
Remember, darling, there is no wrong way to be gay, so navigate your gender identity and sexuality comfortably and most important of all, unapologetically.
If you need a little push or guidance, you can find our in-app community called ‘Coming Out Advice & Conversation’, where there are no silly questions, and all answers are welcome.
Finding a safe haven with people that go through the same tra(ns)vesies you do will certainly help you building-up your identity with confidence and get ready for the world to know you as you truly are.
Making friends in our app is a breeze. The easiest way is to post in your community of choice and start a conversation with the other members, and you can even DM them!
Simply find someone whose profile catches your eye and add them, just like any other social media platform, but gayer.
You can also attend our virtual events and interact with other members in a more social setting.
Don’t be shy, put yourself out there and start chatting! You’ll be surprised at how quickly you’ll make new connections.
