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Better than other chat rooms, HER is a social network app and a safe space to be your authentic self and find your people. Created by queers, for queers.

Download HER now to join communities and chat with other lesbians worldwide! It’s free on iOS and Android.

15 million queer people

Including 2M+ active lesbian, bisexual and queer women to chat with

4.5 stars on iOS and Android

Apple Editor’s Choice 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019

Safe spaces and support

Safer than other lesbian chat rooms, no scammers

Communities just for you

Chat with lesbians in more than 35 HER communities

Frustrated with other dating apps and sites?

Better than any other lesbian chat room!

Picture this: It’s Friday evening. Sally is having a chill night in—coffee in one hand and cat in the other—but something’s missing. All she needs to make the night better is some good conversation with a gorgeous person (or two… or three.. or four, but who’s counting?). 

So, she opens up HER to see who’s online and ends up in an engaging conversation with a cute femme, Nikki. They talk for a couple of days, meet up for coffee, and move in a week later. This could be you! So, what are you waiting for? 

Download the world’s single largest women-centric dating app today to chat with cute single lesbians near you!


Friendship is just as important!

Make friends in our lesbian forums

Not only can you live chat with other lesbian women on HER, but you can also participate in forum discussions. Not sure if forums are your thing? It doesn’t even need to be the lesbian community! We have more than 35 communities on HER for all genders and multiple interests 🙂

Our lesbian forum has been created for you to feel safe and surrounded by people who actually get you. So much more than just a dating app, HER is a social network where you can find queer women for friendship just as much as romance. 

Designed by queer women for queer women, nonbinary, trans, and gender non-conforming people, HER has quickly become the largest app full of single women and queer folks from all over the world.

Do you know anywhere else where you can talk so openly about celesbians, straight girl crushes, falling for your best friend, dating multiple genders, and transitioning? That’s right, you’ve just found your virtual community you’ve been searching for all your life.


We met on HER!

Sam & Bronwyn

“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”

Amanda & Rasheeda

“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”

Chris & Stephanie

“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”

Lesbian chat FAQ

How do lesbians meet singles?

Finding other lesbians can be hard but the 21st century has (mostly) been kind to us, especially when it comes to finding love, community, or whatever it is you’re looking for.

Apps have completely revolutionized the way we date, and as a part of the queer community, it’s never been easier to find each other. Our lesbian chat app is made by queer women, for queer women. It already has over 15 million users worldwide and is growing rapidly.

That means you’ll have no shortage of queer women waiting to chat online on our diverse and inclusive platform all over the world.

How safe is it to chat with other lesbian women on HER?

The safest! If you’ve ever been on other lesbian chat sites, you’d know how many scammers, fake sugar mommas, and homophobes you might find.

Our safety and support team along with our numerous moderators work to make sure we provide the safest experiences and communities and ensure the safest environment for everyone on the app. 

And if you still feel unsafe, you can put yourself in incognito mode so no one can speak to you until you speak to them first.

No more no-face, homophobic, sugar momma scammers! On HER, it’s your time to find authentic, real, amazing lesbians ready to chat when you are! 🙂

How do I get started chatting online?

If you want to get started talking to amazing queer people, including lesbians, just download our free lesbian chat app! 

Thousands of lesbians from all around the world are at the tips of your fingers. There are plenty of additional features too, such as events if you want to meet up with people in person or pride pins to show off your identity and meet others who are just as open.

So what are you waiting for? Get to downloading it!