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Lesbians, get your u-haul ready!

HER is the VIP lounge for fabulous mature lesbians. Say goodbye to bland and boring online spaces, we’ve crafted a safe heaven just for you queens. Brought to you by a squad of queer geniuses, it’s time to mingle, connect, and reign supreme!

Download HER now to join communities and chat with other lesbians from all around the world.

Available on iOS and Android for free.

15 million+ queer folks

Your next match is a tap away

4.5 stars on iOS and Android

Apple Editor’s Choice 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019

Safe spaces & support

A dedicated trust and safety team is ready to assist you anytime Or Secure profile verification

Queer conversation

Share interests in more than 35 HER communities

Matches made in lesbian heaven

Ladies, it’s time to switch things up with a dating app that actually thinks about your needs as seasoned lesbians! 🌈 Whether you’re looking for a new BFF or a little LGBTQIA+ love, we know just the right place.

HER is the perfect spot for savvy, mature, and stylish queers like yourselves to meet, flirt, and make lasting connections.

We are not your average dating site. You can match people, yes, but the possibilities are endless! Get a more organic experience with our in-app communities, online spaces with people that share your interest in gardening, baking, or that one show from the 80s you love so much.

So brew yourself a cup of courage and join us on HER, where the tea is hot, and the ladies are even hotter! 😉 

We met on HER!

Amanda & Rasheeda

“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”

Sam & Bronwyn

“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”

Chris & Stephanie

“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”

Find love in all the swipe-right places!

You know what they say, women are like wine. And lesbians? Definitely get better with age! 🍷 But we can’t say the same for the dating scene, it seems that as we grow older, the options become teeny-tiny.

Back in the day, being a baby lesbian was a whole different ball game, but now, the LGBTQIA+ scene has come out of the closet and is ready to play. Feel confident in occupying the space you rightfully deserve in this community, no matter how much time has passed.

Plus, you’re lucky though because now, you have HER as your virtual wing-woman! Here, we’re all about making the experience fun, flirty, and stress-free. With so many options to meet someone to grow older with, you’ll find your groove in no time.

So come on, join the love-in, let’s show the world what a mature and fabulous bunch you are. Swoon and swipe your heart away to meet the lady of your dreams ASAP!


Q: How can I find other mature or senior lesbians within the app?

If you’re looking for some fellow mature lesbians on HER, you’re luckier than being in a Lisa Frank sticker sale 🌈 Just head into the app and start swiping, and voilà! You’ll find a whole bunch of ladies who’ve got a lot of life experience, just like you. So sit back, relax, and let our queer geniuses do the work!

But if you crave something even more specific, you can go into our countless in-app communities and ask away! There, you’ll meet like-minded ladies who are into the same hobbies, passions, or TV shows as you. So, whether you’re a fan of ‘Golden Girls’ or ‘The L Word,’ you’re bound to find someone who loves it as much as you do.

And if you’re into the ‘meet-cute’ aspect of love, try our online events! Our goal is to make the dating experience a breeze for you, and that’s why we’ll make sure you’ll be surrounded by a bevy of beautiful and wise babes just like you. 

Q: I find dating apps a little frightening. How can I make sure I’m using HER safely?

Technology and dating are both overwhelming topics. Blend them together, and we’ll get a whole smoothie of ‘too much’. That’s why HER is committed to creating an easy, safe, and inclusive environment for all users, especially for our senior lesbian sisters.

We have a wonderful team of moderators that will watch our community space like eagles. and if you see some uncool behavior or activity from any user, you can report them, and we’ll handle it.

You can have peace of mind knowing you’ll get the best experience out of HER, with lots to swipe, chat or connect, and nothing to worry about! 

Q: I came out as a lesbian at an older age. Will that affect my experience at HER?

No way, sweetie! Everybody has their own unique timing and path, and our app is way more than just about dating, it’s about community.

We don’t judge nor expect you to be a know-it-all. No queer history pop-up quizzes here. Only a space to be yourself and meet others like you!

With our 15M+ users, we can assure you there are many ladies out there in the same sitch as you, and if you need a little push or guidance, you can find our in-app community called ‘Coming Out Advice & Conversation’, where there are no silly questions, and all answers are welcome.

Q: I’m excited to join HER! How can I get started?

We’re glad to see you will be joining our queer squad, and it’s super duper easy!

1. Download the app for iOS or Android.

2. Create an account. Tell us about yourself, what you like, and what you’re looking for.

3. We’ll verify your identity to ensure a safe space for all our LGBTQA+ friends.

4. And that’s it! You can start the search for a new squeeze.

Once you’re in, feel free to explore what HER has to offer! Check out our communities for lesbians, bisexuals, athetles, plant parents, and so much more. You can also stay tuned for the next watch party or speed dating rounds in the ‘Events’ section.

See you there!