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Connect with other bisexuals

Looking to connect with your bi community but not sure where to start? HER isn’t just a bi chat room — it’s a social network app and safe space designed to help you be your most authentic self while still finding your people. Created by queers, for queers.

 Download HER now to join digital communities and chat with other bisexual people from all around the world!

Available on iOS and Android for free.

13 million+ queer folks

Including bisexual and bicurious people from all over the world

4.5 stars on iOS and Android

Apple Editor’s Choice 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019

Safe spaces & support

Safer than other bisexual chat rooms, no scammers!

Queer moderators

Chat with other bisexuals in 35 HER communities, moderated by a LGBTQIA+ team

Rainbow connections:

A place for bisexuals to meet and support each other

Hey there bi-cutie 😉 We’ve got great news for you: the days of feeling like a unicorn in a stable full of straight couples looking to spice up their lives are finally over! Because now, there is a safe place where you can be your fabulous bisexual self.

With over 30 forums (aka in-app communities) that go from niche hobbies to hyping up thirst traps, HER is the place to be if you want to make bi and queer friends (or more than friends, who knows 👀). 

It’s like a gay bar, but without the overpriced drinks. Here, you’ll find a diverse group of people who share your experiences and understand the unique challenges that come with being bisexual.

Connect with others through our messaging feature, join communities to discuss your favorite topics, and even attend fun online events.

We met on HER

Sam & Bronwyn

“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”

 Amanda & Rasheeda

 “The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”

Chris & Stephanie

“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”

Bisexual Chat FAQ

What communities can I find in the app?

Our app is a melting pot of diversity, darling! You’ll find a little something for everyone here. Whether you’re into astrology and want to connect with fellow star gazers, or you’re a proud plant parent looking to swap gardening tips and tricks with other green thumbs, we’ve got you covered. 

The list goes on and on. Activism? Got it. Film? Of course! And we can’t forget our own bisexual group to flaunt those pink, purple and blue hearts.

In short, HER is the perfect place to find advice, support, and quality conversation with your all-new friends.

Are there unicorn hunters in HER?

This is a sanctuary for all the fabulous unicorns out there, so no hunters (a.k.a. boring straight couples looking for a third) are allowed. 

We understand that finding your forever herd can be tough, especially in a world that doesn’t always understand or accept us. That’s why we’ve created a space where you can be yourself, free from judgment and discrimination.

So don’t worry! Thanks to our wonderful team of moderators in each community, it’s more likely you won’t find any of those pesky unicorn hunters here. Just a digital room full of supportive, loving, and like-minded individuals, all looking to connect. 

The cherry on top of this delicious sun-gay 🍨 is that you can easily report any “sus” profile you may encounter.

Let the prancing begin!

I think I’m bisexual, but I’m still figuring things out. Can I still join HER?

Absolutely! We understand that everyone’s journey is unique and personal, and it’s okay to be a little bi-curious

At HER, we have a space for those who identify as bisexual, as well as for those who are questioning or still exploring their sexuality.

Our community is inclusive and supportive, and we want to make sure that you feel comfortable and accepted, no matter where you are in your journey. Allow yourself to dig into your true colors, we are waiting with open arms!

How can I make friends once I join?

Making friends in our app is a breeze. The easiest way is to post in your community of choice and start a conversation with the other members, and you can even DM them!

Simply find someone whose profile catches your eye and add them, just like any other social media platform, but gayer.

You can also attend our virtual events and interact with other members in a more social setting.

Don’t be shy, put yourself out there and start chatting! You’ll be surprised at how quickly you’ll make new connections.