HER Community Guidelines are here for YOU. It is our goal to make HER a place where everyone can unapologetically be themselves, feel safe, feel included, and build wonderful relationships that are based on trust, identity and community.
Any post or profile is at liberty to be removed by HER staff or HER moderators if they do not comply with the community rules.
We do not allow “unicorn hunting” or “fetishization” on HER. This includes couples looking for a queer person to fulfill their threesome fantasies and couples seeking out other users or “chasing” others based on creed/gender/orientation to fulfill fantasies at the sake of our community’s comfort and safety.
We have moderators within each community- their profiles are marked with a black M for visibility. Moderators are volunteers who are giving their personal time to help keep the community a safe space for everyone. They can’t see every comment or read every post, but they work extremely hard removing posts and people that break community guidelines. Please treat them the way that you would want to be treated. When they remove something that violates our guidelines, they are doing so to keep the community safe. We want to keep it this way, and we need your help to be able to do it. It is important that you report a post or comment that breaks community guidelines, so that we can remove it as quickly as possible.If you see something that needs to be dealt with immediately, you can also send the link/post/profile to support@weareher.com to be reviewed/removed. If you are ever interested in being a moderator, reach out to the moderators of the community you are interested in and they will be happy to discuss it with you.
We understand everyone has battles that they are working through. Here are some resources to help you fight, and seek the support you need. You’ve got this.
Questions about the community guidelines? You can ask questions in the HER community or contact support@weareher.com