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The largest Trans Dating app

Transgender dating and LGBTQIA+ Connections

HER is the world’s largest safe space for all trans women, trans men and folks outside the gender binary. We’re the dating app designed to help you meet your person; to chat with, hook up with or fall in love with. 

Made by sapphics for sapphics, HER has the most extensive gender and sexuality labels of any dating app, including Pride Pins to express your identity like Trans Pride, T4T, QTPOC and unique filters to make sure you’re connecting with the right person for you. 

13 million+ queer folks

Meet and date transgender women or trans men! Your next match is a tap away

4.5 stars on iOS and Android

Apple Editor’s Choice 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019

Safe spaces & support

A dedicated trust and safety team is ready to assist you anytime

Meet queers and trans near you

Meet people with your same interests in one of HER’s 35+ community groups

Express your true self and connect with your ideal partner

The best trans dating experience

At HER, we’re designed to celebrate trans love! We know very well that for trans love to flourish — we needed to make sure that we created a safe and fun dating environment that took the needs (and wants) of the trans community seriously. We understand the importance of providing a judgment-free environment where trans men and women can truly be their most authentic selves without fear.

We’ve taken a strong stance against TERFs (including getting banned from X because of our commitment to this) and are constantly dedicating time and resources to make HER a TERF-free space

Every feature on HER is meticulously designed to enhance the dating experience for transgender and non-binary people and queer women, prioritizing their safety and comfort.

Unlike mainstream dating apps primarily catering to cisgender men, HER is locked in and focused on creating a space that’s tailored to the interests, passions, and desires of every member of our rainbow alphabet.  A standout feature on HER is the introduction of Pride Pins, allowing users to express their identities and preferences clearly. 

Whether you’re T4T dating, QPOC, Andro, Butch, enby, Chapstick Lesbian, Femme, or Intersex, you can showcase your uniqueness. And sharing about your connection and romantic styles, from love languages to sexual preferences, we’re here to help you find the right partner for you. 

 

The safest transgender dating app

Concerned about safety on HER? Rest assure! Our dedicated trust and safety team is committed to ensuring a secure environment for all LGBTQIA+ individuals. We understand the unique challenges that transgender people face in the dating world, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Each user undergoes verification by linking their profile to a social media account and completing a photo verification process, enhancing authenticity and reducing the risk of encountering catfishers or unwelcome advances. Our vigilant team of safety moderators diligently monitors the platform to uphold respectful interactions and promptly address any issues that may arise.

As a queer team, we deeply understand and recognize the importance of providing a safe and inclusive space for trans individuals, who often face discrimination and harassment on other dating platforms and sites. If you ever come across something that doesn’t sit quite right, you can report a profile or interaction to our team, and we’ll immediately investigate the situation to make sure HER remains as safe and iconic as possible.

We have a clear internal team mandate to remove TERFs from HER – we’re deeply committed to making this an inclusive and welcoming space for our community, and discrimination is not something that will be tolerated. 

By prioritizing data safety and privacy through a thorough verification process and fostering a welcoming environment, HER stands out as a beacon of inclusivity and empowerment in trans dating. 

Join HER today and discover a space where you can truly be yourself without compromise.

We met on HER!

Sam & Miya

“I actually came out as a transgender male early this year. But I met Miya, a beautiful kind soul who loves me for me on Her and we now get to spend forever together because of this app”

Mariana & Bailey

“Bailey has recently come out as Non-Binary Trans, and I love them just the same. This has been the best year and a half of my life, and I look forward to many, many more.”

Sarah & Rylee

“We messaged a few times about tattoos and thinking each other were cute, and then we met for dinner at a rooftop bar in Hollywood. We spend that first night together, and were monogamous by the third date. We are a trans woman/cis woman couple.

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Connect deeply with those who share your passions

Find your trans community

HER isn’t just another free TS dating app — it’s also a space where you can build forever bonds and friendships with people who share your passions and interests!

HER’s Communities is one of our most unique and exciting features! In the app, you’ll be able to join 35+ different communities and socially engage with other vibrant queer people in a fun, safe, and supportive environment.

For our trans users, we’ve created dedicated spaces for trans women, trans men, and non-binary folks so you can get advice, share thoughts, tips, and feelings with other members of the community. 

Join the support, excitement and sense of abundance  in our thriving HER community today.

Transgender dating FAQ

How does HER help protect trans users?

At HER, we’re committed to making a safe space for the whole LGBTQIA+ community and that T isn’t a silent one. We’re focussed on maintaining a safe environment for all users, including our trans babes. Our app is no place for exclusionary agendas.

 

Our fabulous team of moderators keeps an eye on every community to make sure rules are followed and rights are respected. One of the perks of being a HER user is that you can report any suspicious profile that crosses your path, and we’ll take care of the rest. 😉 

 

For example, if you see a profile with no pictures or little-to-no information, that’s a lurker, and we like to keep them out for the safety of our community. No meanies, no bullies, no fakes, no chasers, no people questioning your gender identity and absolutely no transphobes. 

 

We firmly commit to making our app a safe and inclusive place for all trans people to date and chat. Trans men and women, non-binary people, and genderqueers are always welcome here.

Is HER a trans friendly dating app?

HER is more than trans-friendly – every feature on HER is meticulously designed to enhance the dating experience for queer women, non-binary and transgender people, prioritizing their safety and comfort.

 

Apps created by and mostly for straight people have limited options for gender, pronouns, or sexuality. Our queer and TS dating app has numerous options for these categories; you can pick as many or as few as you like. Identities are complex and varied, and your profile should reflect that. If nothing on there fits, you can also self-describe or not include a label. 

 

Other apps may also tolerate people who specify “no trans people” in their profiles… but on HER, you can bet your cute, queer self that the bigots are getting the boot. We take a very firm and proactive stance against TERFs – there’s no space for transphobia.

 

If anyone is being transphobic, they will be removed from our community. We want to make this a space where you can focus on connections and conversations that could lead to more friends or a new love.

What makes HER a great and fun dating app for trans people?

Whether you’re fresh out of the closet or you’ve been in the game for years, dating on HER,  in a space that is respectful and loving is often far more accessible than trying to date in spaces built for cis, straight people.

 

Made by queers for queers, HER is one of the best transgender dating apps because we offer a safe and free space where trans people can feel safe, respected, and fully embraced for who they are. With many safety measures, including profile verification and vigilant moderation, HER ensures a secure environment free from harassment or discrimination. 

 

HER’s inclusive features, such as Pride Pins and diverse Communities, cater to the specific needs and interests of the trans community, fostering meaningful connections and a sense of belonging. 

 

By prioritizing authenticity, inclusivity, and support, HER emerges as a beacon of empowerment and camaraderie for trans individuals navigating the dating world.

How do I find other trans singles to date online?

We know that dating as a trans person can often feel daunting or overwhelming; most apps consider the trans dating experience years later as an afterthought and box-ticking exercise. Safety for trans people is not always guaranteed – primarily online. 

 

On HER app, you can use our free Pride Pins feature to filter your feed to see other trans people on — from FTM, MTF, T4T, butches, studs, and more… Yes, if you are looking for a T4T dating app, we also offer the trans dating experience of your dreams and it is only a few clicks away! 🏳️‍⚧️

 

We’ve got over 13 million users all over the world, including active trans men and women on the app, so you can meet trans people in our monitored and supportive Communities feature, or at one of our trans dating events and movie nights.

What is the dating app for trans women?

Attention, all trans women out there! If you’re looking for an exciting and inclusive free dating app that caters to your needs and desires, look no further than HER! 

 

With one-of-a-kind features like profile verification and trans-friendly Communities, HER is made by sapphics for sapphics and provides a safe and empowering space where you can connect with like-minded individuals who truly understand and appreciate you. 

 

Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or support, HER has got you covered. 

 

Join now and experience the thrill of finding meaningful connections with trans women like you!

How to date a trans woman?

Being transgender is just a part of someone’s identity, similar to a sexuality or race. It is essential to respect the identity and journey of the person you are dating. 

 

As we prioritize the safety of our transgender users, we do not welcome unicorn hunting or fetishization on our platform. Our dedicated team ensures our users’ safety, making HER one of the most genuine trans-friendly dating apps available. 

 

If you are not familiar with transgender experiences, it is crucial to do some research. It is important not to assume someone’s gender or sexual orientation. It is not anyone’s responsibility to educate you about their identity. We have plenty of articles on our blog, including trans dating tips for trans women and men, if you want more information.

 

Being respectful and kind is key. It is essential to respect people’s boundaries and avoid asking private questions about their transition, especially to strangers or acquaintances. 

I only recently came out as trans. Will joining HER help with my journey?

Abso-freaking-lutely! From the baby queers to the most seasoned of us, everyone is welcome to join and interact with others. Remember, darling: there is no wrong way to be gay, so navigate your gender identity and sexuality comfortably and, most important of all, unapologetically

 

If you need a little push or guidance, you can find our in-app community, ‘Coming Out Advice & Conversation’, where there are no silly questions and all answers are welcome.

 

Finding a safe haven with people who go through the same experiences you do will help you build up your identity confidently and get ready for the world to know you as you are.

I just transitioned. How do I date safely as a trans person?

The first step to ensuring your safety is to find spaces that let you be you and minimize transphobia and fetishization. TS dating apps like HER can be a great place to start because we respect and understand who you are, and you can easily find others who share your experiences.

 

HER users can choose from several different identities, add pride pins, like trans pride or T4T, that explain who you are and what you’re looking for, or even choose to go incognito so no one can see you unless someone likes you first. 

 

But take it slowly and take it day by day. Explore the ways you feel most comfortable sharing about your identity. You communicate in the timeline that works well for you. We’ve built features to add and express to your profile (if that feels right) or you can share who you are and what you’re looking for in messages, over a phone call or when you meet IRL. 

 

Expressing your identity should happen on your terms and it’s an important part of connection so you will need to read your connection and decide that right time to share.

Are all in-app communities trans oriented?

Every member is part of the so-called alphabet mafia, but since we celebrate diversity and inclusion at HER, there are plenty of communities for all interests, gender identities and sexualities

 

We want our people to connect not only because of their differences from the rest of the world but also because of the quirks and talents they have in common.

 

Want to talk about the latest French flick you watched? Check out ‘Movies & TV Shows’. How about comparing birth charts and finding other Leo moons? Then head straight (or gay up) to ‘Astrology, Horoscopes & Tarot.’ 

 

We can’t forget what you’re here for:  ‘Trans Women,’ ‘Trans Men,’ and ‘Nonbinary Communities’ are waiting for you to join for free! And just like that, to quote our beloved Carrie, you can find your new squad within our 35+ amazing forums.

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