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Be your authentic, trans self

HER is the world’s most-loved transgender dating app for trans men and women. With an active trans community, HER is an ever-growing and safe space to be your authentic self and find your people. Created by queers, for queers.

Available on iOS and Android for free.

13 million+ queer folks

Meet and date transgender people! Featured on Apple Editor's Choice

4.5 stars on iOS and Android

Over 35k reviews on the App Store

Safe spaces & support

A dedicated trust and safety team is ready to assist you anytime

Queer conversation

Make new friends, share interests & chat easily

A community for trans women and men

Meet, date, and make friends safely

Meeting new people, having new experiences, and connecting with each other – that’s what dating should be about! But often for LGBTQIA+ people and especially for transgender people, we need a dedicated queer space because the only way to make a truly deep connection with someone is by feeling safe to be yourself.

Queer spaces, especially those explicitly inclusive to trans folks, offer the safety and support to be completely ourselves without fear. That’s what HER profiles are all about, a unique queer and transgender dating app.

HER offers a judgment-free zone where you can find people like you and people who respect you and build meaningful trans relationships. Queer people need to stick together, and that always includes the trans community. So if you’re trans and looking for anyone – from cis to non-binary to trans to anywhere in between – HER is a place to be your authentic self and find someone who wants you for you.

Head to the App Store or the Play Store and see what happens – you could meet the one.

We met on HER!

Chris & Stephanie

“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”

Sam & Bronwyn

“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”

Amanda & Rasheeda

“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”

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Transgender dating FAQ

How do I find other trans singles to date online?

We know that dating as a trans person can often feel daunting or overwhelming. And safety for trans people is not always guaranteed – especially online. At HER, we strongly commit to making our app a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all trans folks. Trans women, trans men, non-binary, and genderqueer folks are all welcome here.

We’ve got over 13 million users all over the world, including active trans men and women on the app. Also, on HER, you can join dedicated communities for transgender people.

I just transitioned, how do I date safely as a trans person?

The first thing to ensure safety for yourself is to find spaces that let you be you and minimize transphobia and fetishization. Apps like HER can be a great place to start, because they’re spaces that respect and understand who you are, and you can easily find others that share your experiences.

HER users can choose from several different identities, add pride pins (like trans pride or T4T) that explain who you are/what you’re looking for, or even choose to go incognito so no one can see you unless you like them first.

There are several options to choose from to keep you safe and help you feel comfortable.

Why is trans dating so hard? Does HER make it easier?

Apps created by and mostly for straight people have limited options for gender, pronouns, or sexuality.

HER has numerous options for all of these categories, and you can pick as many or as few as you like. Identities are complex and varied, and your profile should be able to reflect that. If there’s nothing on there that fits, you can also self-describe or not include a label. Other apps may also tolerate people who specify “no trans people” in their profile.

On HER, we take a very firm and proactive stance against TERFs – there’s no space for transphobia.

If anyone is being transphobic they will be removed from our community. We want to make this a space where you can focus on connections and conversations that could lead to more friends or a ne

What makes HER a great dating app for trans people?

Whether you’re fresh out of the closet or you’ve been in the game for years, dating in a space that is respectful and loving is often far easier than trying to date in spaces built for cis, straight people.

HER is one of the best transgender dating apps because we offer a safe space to find people who respect you – which also includes a community section of the app for making friends.

There are a ton of communities you can join, but the Trans Men and Trans Women communities are big ones with plenty of open-minded people posting every day.

What if I want to date someone who identifies as trans?

Being trans is just one part of who someone is, just like your sexuality and your race are just one part of who you are. The most important thing is to respect them, their identity, and their journey.

Because we prioritize the safety of our trans users, please be aware that unicorn hunting and fetishization are not welcome on our platform.

For that, we have a dedicated trust and safety team that is ready to assist you anytime, which helps us to make HER one of the most genuine trans-friendly dating apps out there.

What questions should I avoid when dating a trans person?

If you don’t know much about transgender experiences, it’s crucial to do some research before you dive into dating someone trans, and a good starting point is don’t assume someone’s gender or sexual orientation.

At the end of the day, we’re all human, and it’s key to be respectful and kind, so always respect people’s boundaries. Avoid asking private questions, including not asking questions to strangers or acquaintances about their transition.

It is never anyone else’s job to educate you about their identity. If you’re not sure where to look, we have plenty of articles on our blog, including trans dating advice.

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