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Bisexual dating and LGBTQIA+ Connections

Discover the world’s largest community of bisexual and queer folks. No more bi-erasure and biphobia. We have millions of sapphics in our community and over 30% of our user base are bi-babes. HER is even founded by a bi woman – we’re here to make this sapphic experience the best we possibly can for you. 

We’ve taken a firm stance against unicorn hunters on HER (no shame! We just feel that other apps cater well for that purpose, and our community mainly asked not to be scouted out for those goals) so you can focus on the more meaningful, intentional connections you’re looking for.

13M+ members and growing

With no shortage of people, your perfect match awaits.

4.5 stars on the App Store

Apple Editor’s Choice 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019

Empowering communities

Join one of our vibrant 35+ LGBTQIA+ community groups

Chat with bisexuals near you

Connect and chat with like-minded friends and lovers in your area

On HER, you say goodbye to stereotypes

No need to defend or define your bisexuality

Are you tired of spending hours swiping on mainstream dating apps that only cater to heteros? We’ve created a safe space where bisexual women and other LGBTQIA+ people can express themselves freely without conforming to any stereotypes or defending their bisexuality. 

HER is the world’s largest (and most iconic, we must say) dating and community-building platform for bisexual, lesbian, queer women and gender-non-conforming icons worldwide. 

With over 13 million users in more than 114 countries, you can absolutely bet your cute butt that your perfect match — or perfect matches — are only a few clicks away.

We’ll put our hands up – for bisexual people, we can’t cater to all your needs. We’re here for the sapphic parts of your identity alone (this isn’t the spot where you’ll meet many cis men). But considering most hetero apps cater their whole experience to that side of your identity, we figured we could focus on the rest for you. 

Our queer and bisexual dating app allows you to customize every little aspect of your dating profile so the most authentic version of yourself can shine brightly from day one. Unlike the hetero apps, HER allows you to easily add your pronouns, gender identity, sexual orientation, and a litany of other fun facts and pins to your profile that make you, well, you! 

You’ll find a supportive community for bisexual women, where users can connect with open-minded people who share similar experiences and are also looking for meaningful relationships.


Safely connect with bisexual and bi curious women

The best bisexual dating experience

HER is much more than just a free bisexual dating site and LGBTQIA+ community app; it’s a revolutionary platform designed by sapphics for sapphics, focused on fostering genuine connections and prioritizing user safety. We believe that every connection made on HER should be meaningful and fulfilling. 

With customizable profiles, you can express yourself authentically and showcase your identity, sexuality and interests with the pride pins feature, such as bisexual, queer person of color, butch, femme, stud and much more. 

Also, we provide in-app communities beyond mere swiping where you can connect, share experiences, build friendships and meet with like-minded bisexual and bi-curious women and queer people. We have a dedicated bisexual community group, so you can chat with others about the everyday biphobia you probably deal with out there and pick up tips and comebacks to throw away comments about your ‘greed’ 🙄 If we had a dime… 

At HER, we deeply understand the needs of the bi community, and we have built our app with those needs in mind. Our safety team actively monitors and intervenes to protect users from unicorn hunting, ensuring a respectful and safer environment for all. 

So, what are you waiting for? Join HER today and experience the difference for yourself! The free app is available on iOS and Android.


Sam & Bronwyn

“It all started with a hello, and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”

Amanda & Rasheeda

“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for the Her App bringing us together.”

Chris & Stephanie

“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”

HER offers an empowering space to meet bi people

Safe Bisexual Dating

As a queer company, HER is all about safety! To ensure the well-being of our community, HER’s Trust and Safety team works tirelessly to improve our online safety measures.

Our Trust and Safety team comprises world-class moderators who guarantee that everyone on HER is treated with respect. We remove unicorn hunters from the app and have a firm no-discrimination policy, including suspending any users who share biphobic statements. 

Additionally, users must be verified and authenticated by linking their profile with an existing social media account before using the app.

In case you ever find something that makes you uncomfortable, from a couple approaching you inappropriately to a user telling you they think you’re going to cheat on them because of your sexuality, please flag or report it so that our team can investigate and remove any scammers, transphobes, or fake celebrity profiles from the app. We’ll always aim to get back to you within 24 hours!

Meet, date, and chat with people who share your interests!

Find Your Forever Community

HER is more than just a dating and relationship platform. It’s where bisexual individuals can create long-lasting connections – from dating to friendship to finding your forever person.

With over 35 Community groups to choose from, HER offers a safe and supportive space for users to engage socially with fellow queer folks, regardless of their background or beliefs. Bonus points: they are always popping off. Our in-app Bisexual community alone has 60,000+ members and hundreds of posts every day from other bi people looking to connect and get advice. 

These communities are designed to be inclusive and accessible, our safety led approach to profiles is even stepped up in communities with a team of bi moderators keeping an eye on the content in that space

Bisexual Dating FAQ

Are there bisexual dating sites?

There are plenty of free dating apps and websites that claim to be bi-friendly but end up being full of unicorn hunters and creepy cis men being… well… creepy cis men. 


For bisexual individuals looking for love or friendship, the struggle is real. The endless scrolling through profiles that don’t quite “get it.” But then there was HER app — a game-changer and the largest bi dating app in the world with over 13M users.


We are much more than a free bisexual dating site! Gone are the days when finding love was confined to straight lines. Imagine stepping into a world where your identity isn’t just accepted but celebrated 🌈✨


Made by queers for queer people, here stands HER: bold and unapologetic in our mission to provide safe space and genuine connections regardless of how you identify or whom you love. Learn more about HER community and unique features here.


How to date a bisexual person?

Bisexual dating is like most dating – finding a connection with a human that loves and supports you, but for our bi+ users, that can be regardless of the gender of your partner. 


In short, It’s all about breaking down barriers, embracing authenticity, and finding compatibility with someone who cherishes you for who you are, regardless of gender.


Like any other sexual orientation, it comes with its own set of challenges. Platforms like HER may not feature cis-men, but we offer a vibrant community of queer women, non-binary and trans people eager to meet you.

In this in-depth article, we share experts’ dating tips to build loving relationships.

What if I don’t know if I’m bisexual or a lesbian?

Navigating your sexuality can feel like a winding journey, especially in a world where queer women often lack representation. Compulsory heterosexuality adds another layer of complexity, nudging individuals to conform to heterosexual norms despite their true feelings. But fear not, resources like the Lesbian Masterdoc offer gentle guidance in understanding and embracing your identity. 


Signs of grappling with compulsory heterosexuality, such as finding solace in unattainable crushes or feeling uneasy about romantic relationships with men, may resonate with you as you explore your own path. 


We explore the topic of being bisexual or lesbian in this article , and we would like to remind you that there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to understanding your attractions and being bisexual doesn’t mean fitting into rigid boxes or adhering to traditional gender norms. 


Embrace your unique journey and trust in your feelings as you discover what rings true for you. You’re not alone on this self-discovery adventure, and a warm community is ready to welcome you with open arms!


How to find bisexual friends?

HER isn’t just a bi dating app — it’s also a sapphic community and a fantastic tool for discovering new friends who share your interests. So, if you’re looking for an exciting way to expand your social circle, look no further than HER. 


We offer an ‘Add Friend’ option on profiles so you can connect with like-minded bi individuals and build your own community of people. Whether you’re new to a city or just looking to explore your local queer scene, our app can help you find the best events and activities nearby. 


With a dedicated community section, you can join conversations on varied topics, find your niche, and make new friends. Share your best bisexual jokes with people who will get you!


So why wait? Join HER today and start connecting with amazing queer and bi people from all walks of life.


How to find a bisexual woman?

Meeting other bi women to date can be one of the most validating experiences, as another bi person, and if you know you’re looking for someone in the sapphic community, HER has been built for you. 


First up, we have a dedicated Bisexual Pride Pin – so you can add yours to your profile, and you can filter, for free, for this Pride Pin. No other dating app has a feature like this for free. 


We also have a dedicated bisexual community inside the app so you can chat with other bi babes and lament and enjoy talking through all your experiences – online and IRL in dating. 


You’ll never find a better community of people to hear you sob about yet another person asking you for a threesome, or which gender you really prefer or who you really know you’re going to end up with 🙄


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Bi on the big screen? We got you covered!

From coming-of-age to action flicks, let’s explore our favorite films with bisexual characters.

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Wondering if “bi panic” is just a meme or a deeper thing? Dive into our blog to find out!

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