Other apps might say that they have inclusive dating, but they never have pansexual dating in mind. We were super frustrated by the lack of pan dating support. So, we created a place where pan dating isn’t just accepted but welcomed, supported, and understood.
We know that, no, pansexuals aren’t just bisexuals with a trendy name. We are a unique, valid group of folks who deserve a space where we can simply exist without it being exhausting. Shouldn’t your dating app be able to let you reflect all the delightful details that make you the incredible person that you are? Our supportive and inclusive dating app now has millions of sapphics & pansexuals in our community looking for connections.
With no shortage of people, your perfect match (or matches) awaits.
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Have you wasted an endless number of swipes on hetero apps on folks who just don’t understand what pansexual means? Or even worse, folks who just think you’re bisexual or want to recruit you to join their threesome? We got tired of seeing our stunning pansexual queer community pushed to the side. So, we created a safe space where pansexual sapphics and other LGBTQIA+ individuals can chat, connect, and just be their authentic selves, without having to be told “oh so you’re bi then” or “yeah but it’s just a phase” for the 578th time. Your time is valuable- don’t waste it on apps that don’t respect you.
HER is the world’s largest (and the best) dating and community-building platform for pansexual, sapphic, and queer folks across the globe with over 15 million users in more than 114 countries.
Your perfect match — or your new chosen pansexual friend group — are only a few taps away. Welcome home. You’re valid, welcome, and we are so happy that you are in our community.
Our sapphic and pansexual dating app allows you to customize every little aspect of your dating profile so the most authentic version of yourself can shine brightly from day one. Unlike the hetero focused mainstream apps, HER allows you to easily add what style of relationship you are searching for, your sexual orientation, and a whole bunch of other fun facts and pins to your profile that make you, well, you!
You’ll find a supportive community for pansexual dating and connections, where users can connect with understanding, non-judgmental folks who share similar experiences and relationship goals.Whether you’re dating a pansexual woman for the first time, or you just want some memes to add to the group chat, you’re bound to find what you’re looking for on HER.
HER isn’t just that “app for lesbians”. We are so much more! Created by sapphics for sapphics, HER is a game-changing space that is inclusive to the LGBTQIA+ community and all of the colors of the rainbow within it. This includes the fantastic relationship styles that don’t fit inside the binary of traditional dating.
We truly believe that every connection made on HER should be meaningful and fulfilling. We aren’t the app that’s made to be deleted. HER is the queer dating and community app made to help you find new partners, your queer crew of friends, events that you can’t miss, and fun, genuine conversations that will make you want to stick around and make yourself at home sweet home.
Pansexual people can find a validating and welcoming space on HER. We host and develop events specifically designed for pansexual relationships, like our famous speed dating events. Platonic pansexual meetups more your vibe? We have speed friending events, too. We even offer educational content to help you grow if you need it, such as a detailed breakdown of what it means to be pan vs bi, how to come out to those around you if you’re ready, and how to flirt with pansexual women. We are here to support you, no matter what type of pansexual connection you are looking for <3
At HER, we genuinely understand the needs of the pansexual community, and we have built our app with those needs in mind. Our safety team actively monitors and intervenes to protect users from things like fetishization, panphobia, and disrespectful content, ensuring a respectful and safer environment for all.
Our app is free for iOS and Android.
“It all started with a hello, and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”
“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for the Her App bringing us together.”
“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”
HER is so much more than just a dating app. It’s where pansexual people can create long-lasting connections – from dating to friendship to dating and everything in between, there is a world of amazing people who have the same intentions as you.
With over 35 Community groups to choose from, HER offers a safe and supportive space for users to engage socially with fellow queer and pansexual people without the intrusive hetero gaze & fetishized vibes found on other mainstream dating apps. We know that navigating the world of pansexuality is a complicated one that isn’t talked about too much.
You might find yourself asking questions like, “How do I navigate dating as a pansexual woman?” or maybe you’re new to navigating gender identities and want to learn more about what they mean. Or maybe, you just want to know if there’s a pansexual dating app that’s truly inclusive. Whether you’re looking for advice, your date to the Janelle Monae concert next weekend, silly queer memes or your happily ever after, the HER community is a safe and supportive space for pansexual connections.
These communities are designed to be inclusive and accessible for all of the brilliant members of our community. Our safety-led approach to content moderation on the app is even amped up with a team of moderators that diversely represent a broad spectrum of sexualities and identities that keep an eye on the content in that space and remove harmful content.
