Feeling over the endless swipe-a-thons? Looking for a place where you can actually vibe with fellow bisexuals without all of the unicorn hunters and fake connections? HER is your all-inclusive one-stop shop for the best online bisexual chats.
HER isn’t just about dating; it’s all about building community. With 35+ different online queer communities in the app, you can link up with other bi babes and chat about everything.
From the best places to grab an iced oat milk latte to get advice on how to work up the nerve to strike up a conversation with the girl you met at the Hayley Kiyoko concert. Think of it as a bisexual chat room experience, but multiplied to be even better!
With no shortage of people, chatting is instant
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Join one of our vibrant 35+ LGBTQIA+ community groups.
Connect and chat with like-minded friends and partners in your area.
We understand the digital fatigue of trying to find meaningful bisexual online community spaces. According to a 2022 Gallup Research poll, 57% of LGBTQIA+ Americans identify as bisexual. That may be true, but for as many bisexuals are out there in the great wide world, we had a hell of a time trying to find them- so we designed HER to be a place that makes text chat with other bisexual and sapphic folks a piece of cake.
Our cutting-edge sapphic app allows you to customize every little aspect of your profile so that you can be 100% authentic from the start. Use our free Pride pins to brighten up your profile while also letting your bi pride shine! You can set your relationship goals and intentions so whether you’re looking for your soulmate, your new best friend or something casual, you can find a genuine bisexual connection that is just right for you. You can also sync your Spotify account so you can show off what queer artists you’re playing on repeat or add your Instagram feed to give a little window into your world.
Online conversation has never been easier. Tongue-tied about how to message someone once you’ve hit it off in our bisexual forums? (We get it- Beth McCarthy said it best: we don’t know how to talk to girls!). Never fear! Let us be your sapphic guide- we have free icebreaker questions that we wrote for you to take the pressure off and jump start a conversation with something smoother than “you up?” Video chat, phone calls, U-Hauling and adopting a cat will quickly follow!
If you’re like us, then internet safety is at the top of your mind. The safety of our bisexual community means everything to us, and we want to do all that we can to make sure that the connections that you’re making with bisexual babes are authentic and genuine.
Unlike other hetero-focused apps where unicorn hunting runs rampant (looking at you, Tinder!), that doesn’t fly here. Our community is meant to be a safe space for everyone, period. And that includes making sure that our users aren’t fetishized. We know that you’re not an experiment or a plaything, and we have a super easy report button to make unicorn hunters *pop* disappear.
Have you been burned before on a dating app, thinking you were chatting to the bisexual baddie of your dreams only to find out they were a bot? The hotties on HER are legit, and we are here to make sure you can trust in the profiles you are online chatting with. Accounts that have the checkmark next to their profile have been verified by our amazing team of human beings (not bots!) so that you can feel safe making connections with genuine folks. Oh, and did we mention verified profiles get 4x more matches? 👀 (Just saying—might wanna get verified ASAP! It’s free!)
“I loved her profile picture with her camera in hand and her wick falling over her eyes, she thought I was pretty with my long hair (which I cut just before our first date🤦🏼♀️😂 I didn’t want to make things easier or what?). We finally met one evening (12/30/2022) for a drink by the sea. When I finally met her gaze I completely fell in love it was HER finally!!! We haven’t left each other since. We moved in together at the beginning of April and we are leaving this winter for a month to visit Thailand in love! Life is beautiful now that we are both, everything is easy and beautiful! Thank you HER thank you thank you🌈💜”
“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”
“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”
Did you know that in a survey HER ran in 2023, 59.1% of our bisexual users had people tell them their sexuality is just a ‘phase’, and 63.9% felt that people in their lives believed they couldn’t make up their minds about their sexuality. How f#@!ed up is that? We know that you don’t need to make up your mind. We’re a judgment free zone where you can be yourself, without worrying about being “queer enough”.
We have an amazing team of moderators- including many that are bisexual! It’s their job to keep the chats respectful for the LGBTQ+ communities on the app. Do you spot someone saying bisexuals are just confused or that they’re fake lesbians? With our easy report option, you can report this to a moderator where it will be taken down ASAP. We have a strict policy against biphobia, and it isn’t welcome here.
HER offers a safe space for bi folks to connect, free from the hetero gaze of mainstream apps. With 35+ communities to choose from, you can easily find local bisexual connections, get advice on coming out, or just chat about your pets or favorite queer TV shows. Our bisexual community alone has thousands of members and hundreds of daily posts of advice, memes, and more!
