Online Chat Site for Single, LGBT Women

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If you’ve spent any amount of time on dating apps—and let’s face it, who hasn’t?—then you already know they’re geared toward a hetero crowd. Simply put, mainstream apps have failed the LGBTQ+ community. And don’t even get us started on the terrible selection of apps that were designed for us queer folk (you guessed it, they’re even worse!). That’s why we created HER, an app designed by queer women for queer women, nonbinary, trans and gender nonconforming people. It’s quickly become the largest free dating app full of single women and queer folks from all over the world. With a simple click of a button and you have a community of women to chat with at your fingertips, whether you’re at home or on the go.

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Chat Rooms Dedicated to Queer Women

It’s Friday evening. Sally is having a chill night in—brew in one hand and cat in the other—but something’s missing. All she needs to make the night better is some good conversation with a gorgeous person (or two… or three.. or four, but who’s counting?). So, she opens up HER app to see who’s online. Unsurprisingly, she has a new message from this cute femme she’s been chatting with named Nikki.

Nikki: Be forewarned: I’m probably going to dump you after the first date.
Sally: Really, that’s it? I better call to cancel the UHaul in the morning…
Nikki: WTF, I meant JUMP you! Damn autocorrect.
Sally: Well this is awkward…

While we can’t guarantee that autocorrect won’t almost get you dumped, we CAN guarantee that HER is full of plenty of queers like Sally that are full of sarcasm and charm. HER is moderated 24/7 so you can be sure you’re in an LGBTQ+ friendly and safe environment. You already know what that means—that’s right, no unsolicited nudes. Winning.

All jokes aside—just hop onto the chat room any time you’re in the mood for the virtual company of a lovely queer. You can see which women are online and chat privately with whoever else is down. It’s a glorious thing, especially during these uncertain times where you’re probably not going out to meet people as much. The best part is, you can chat with women and queer folks in your city or on the other side of the world. The choice is yours.

Find a Wide Variety of Relationship and Queer Topics in Our Forum

Not only can you live chat with single, coupled, and poly women on HER, but you can also take part in forum discussions as well. Not sure if forums are your thing? Well, let us ask you this… Are you a queer woman of color, closeted lesbian, astrology lesbian, nonbinary, trans, bisexual, a YouTube lesbian, or any other kind of lesbian? Whatever kind of queer you are, we can almost guarantee that we have a forum full of like-minded queers with your name on it! With topics on traveling and living abroad, animals, bisexuality, non-monogamy, mindfulness, and self-care, coming out, and much more—you can find your community on HER.

Our forums have been created for you to feel safe and surrounded by people who actually get you. So much more than just a dating app, HER is a place where you can find queer women for friendship, romance, and more. So many women connect in one community who have been through all of the same dating relationship struggles as you. Do you know anywhere else where you can talk so openly about celesbians, straight girl crushes, falling for your best friend, dating multiple genders, and transitioning? That’s right, you’ve just found your virtual community that you’ve been searching for all your life.

Visit Our Message Boards From Anywhere Using Our Free App

The best part about HER is that it’s not just for women in certain parts of the world. We celebrate women from all walks of life. Our message boards can be visited from anywhere using our free app. That means, whether you’re located in Antarctica or Costa Rica, you can be sure there’s plenty of single queer women waiting to chat with you. And wherever you are, if you feel like messaging with that cute queer from Romania, well, then you’re in luck.

So, what are you waiting for? Download the world’s single largest women-centric dating app today to chat with queer singles near you. Or if you’re already coupled up and simply looking for friends, there are plenty of other queer folks looking for the same. You’ve got nothing to lose—and a network of queer people to gain!

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