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Jul 09, 2025
Okay, it’s a wrap! The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 just dropped its reunion, and… whew. That was a lot. Like, sex playlists, matching tattoos, emotional breakdowns, upgraded rings, Brussels sprout drama kind of a lot.
Twelve queers walked in to either get married or get out, and what we got was one of the sapphicest, messiest, most chaotic social experiments Netflix has dared to throw at us (again). We laughed, we cried, we gasped, we screamed “SHE LIED” at our screens more times than we’d like to admit.
But now that the dust (and glitter) has settled, the real question is: which couples from The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 are still together? Who said “yes” on Ultimatum Day, and who ghosted their way out of the reunion?
Let’s get into it.
Together 5 years: YES 💍
Source: Netflix
Britney: @britneythmpsn & AJ: @ajalways_jammin
These two came in hot. Britney gave the ultimatum, AJ gave the vibes, and somehow we got the queer fairy tale ending no one expected.
Let’s not forget that AJ was out here flirting with literally half the cast (Marita, Marie, Bridget… did we miss anyone?). AJ knew exactly what she was doing. She was giving full sapphic Casanova and we were eating it up. She had Marita hooked. Like, deep in. And guess who noticed? Bridget.
Bridget came in with the receipts and no filter. Bridget called her out in front of everyone and said what we were all thinking: she was giving the exact same lines, same chemistry, same “you’re the one” vibe to multiple girls. Our jaws dropped. Her words? “I’m not the authenticity police, but…” It wasn’t subtle.
AJ swore what she had with each of them was real… just real in different ways. Classic.
Then AJ picked Marie for the first trial marriage. And it started strong with flirty convos, sparks flying, and chemistry off the charts. Until AJ secretly snuck off to see Britney twice. Yes, during her trial marriage. Yes, breaking the rules. And when Marie found out, that made things a bit trickier.
But here comes the twist: Britney still chose her. And AJ, messy and magnetic as ever, chose her right back. By Ultimatum Day, they were the first couple to get engaged. Not only did AJ propose with a personalized ring, she later upgraded it to a shinier, sparklier version. Total soft flex. Very AJ.
By the reunion episode, these two were glowing. Still engaged after The Ultimatum Season 2, still smitten, and apparently plotting a destination wedding. AJ even gave a shoutout to Marita (who, by the way, had to stay with Britney during trial week by default… awkward) for helping her realize Britney would always choose her. Growth? We’ll take it.
Messy? Yep. Magnetic? Always. But they made it. AJ wins. Britney wins. We win.
Together 4 years: NO 😵💫
Source: Netflix
Mel: @melentersthechat & Marie: @marieeangeline
These two rolled in like a power couple. Four years deep. Shared a food truck. Shared a closet. Shared everything. But by the end, they’re not even sharing the same air.
Marie gave the ultimatum. She wanted a wife. Mel? She wanted Dayna. Oops.
Let’s rewind. Marie and Mel started off strong. They were super in sync, giving “We’ve been through it all.” But then Mel got paired with Dayna for trial week, and it got intimate fast. We’re talking about staying up all night, flirty convos, secret kisses… and then they got matching tattoos. Matching. Tattoos. Bold. That’s commitment. Except, not for Marie.
When Marie found out, she spiraled. But Mel wasn’t done. She lied to Marie’s face about it. Dayna kept quiet, too… until the iconic Spotify-gate. Magan and Haley caught their devices syncing to one very steamy playlist, including Dayna’s shared playlist with Mel using songs she originally made for Magan.
Even after all that, Mel proposed. Marie said yes.
But by the reunion, it’s over. Done. Mel was smiling like she’d been free for months. Marie walked in, ready to swing. She broke up with Mel a few months after the show and said she needed space to rediscover herself. Marie set boundaries. Mel kept the food truck.
Then came the stage fight. Marie said she hated her. Ashley cried. Dayna got dragged. Mel looked like she was sipping tea off-camera. Britney hugged everyone. It was giving sapphic WWE.
Together 1.5 years: (YES 💍)
Source: Netflix
Dayna: @mdayna & Magan: @maganmourad
Let’s set the scene: Dayna was ready to U-Haul, propose, and merge Spotify accounts. Magan was still untangling necklaces and her family trauma. But instead of walking away, they leaned in, messy, queer, emotional chaos and all, and somehow we ended up with a happy ending. We’ll cry about it later. Let’s rewind.
Dayna gave the ultimatum. Classic Gemini energy, emotionally avoidant yet somehow the one begging for commitment. She came into the show obsessed with Magan (love at first bar, literally), but those abandonment issues were not staying quiet. Meanwhile, Magan, sweet, anxious, and boundary-challenged, loved Dayna, but between unsupportive parents and a serious case of emotional whiplash, she wasn’t sure if forever was on the table.
So cue the experiment. Magan was matched with Haley and got soft, thoughtful clarity. There were cuddles, confessions, and, yes, some kissing. Magan admits she caught feelings but regrets letting it get too deep because it cost her what could’ve been a lifelong friendship.
Dayna got paired with Mel and set off a chaos bomb. We’re talking emotional depth, flirty tension, and a matching shamrock tattoo. Shamrock. Like, we get it, lucky in love, but now she has a whole ex etched into her skin and a very confused fiancée back home. And don’t forget, she didn’t exactly tell Marie the truth about that timeline. Cue awkward reunion apologies and the ghost of Spotify-gate lingering in the background.
Still, once Dayna and Magan reunited, all those wounds came roaring up. Magan was hurt by the tattoo, Dayna felt rejected when Magan pulled away, and everyone else was wondering if they were okay. But despite all the wreckage, the answer was yes. They weren’t ready to quit.
Magan proposed first. Plot twist? Dayna had also planned her own surprise proposal. So they stood there, both down on one knee, crying and in love, and honestly, that’s the queer chaos we live for.
At the reunion, they were still engaged, still healing, and navigating the fallout with Magan’s family, who had a lot of thoughts about their screen time. Dayna even did Thanksgiving with them. Growth. They’re still in Detroit, still figuring it out, and still deeply in it. As Magan put it, they didn’t expect it to be this dramatic, but hey, they made it.
Matching tattoos. Matching rings. Matching trauma, honestly. But also, matching hearts. 💚
Together 3 years: NO 🧨
Source: Netflix
Ashley: @ashleyj_19 & Marita: @maritaprodger
These two watched The Ultimatum together and swore they’d never be that couple. Plot twist: They became that couple and somehow worse.
Ashley was all in. After three years of loving hard and being left on read emotionally, she gave the ultimatum. She wanted Marita to choose her for real this time, not just when rent was due or the car needed gas. Marita, ever the hopeless romantic, was still out here looking for her Alex Kelly moment and wondering why her girlfriend never planned candlelit scavenger hunts on the beach. So, she wasn’t ready.
Cue the show. Ashley got paired with Bridget and lived her pottery-core fantasy. Marita got paired with Britney and unlocked something real. Britney cooked. Britney listened. Britney showed up. And suddenly, Marita realized she had never actually felt chosen in her own relationship. Ouch.
Back with Ashley, things imploded. On ultimatum day, Marita poured her heart out on the beach. She literally called her dad the night before to ask for a blessing. Ashley looked into her teary eyes and said no. She couldn’t do it. It wasn’t right. No proposal. No forever.
But wait, it gets messier.
The day after the breakup, Ashley showed up at Marita’s hotel with the car packed. They went on a romantic getaway. They even tried again. And then, while Marita was back in California mourning her grandfather, Ashley started seeing someone new. When Marita found out, she lost it. Blocked her on everything — even LinkedIn. Marita went full scorched-earth TikTok. And Ashley cried off-camera at the reunion while grieving her grandmother and the girl who once felt like home.
Turns out, neither one was ready to let go. They circled back. Talked. Rehashed. Fought some more. But in the end, Marita chose herself. She’s now thriving, singing her heart out, dating, and living her best main character life.
Ashley, now based in Denver, is slowly healing. She still talks to Bridget. She’s dating again, cautiously, and says she’s finally figuring out how to be chosen without chasing. Because deep down, she never felt like she was enough for Marita. And maybe that was the real heartbreak all along.
They didn’t get the rom-com ending. But they sure gave us the full-blown sapphic drama saga.
Together 10 years: YES 💍
Source: Netflix
Haley: @haleydrexler & Pilar: @dr.dmusic
These two. Ten years strong. Met as college orientation leaders and basically never let go. Haley has been ready to say “I do.” Pilar, though? Still untangling the knot of queerness and family rejection. Not the vibe for wedding bells. At least, not at first.
Haley gave the ultimatum. Pilar gave the panic. Marriage felt like a flashing neon sign of all the people who wouldn’t show up. She didn’t want to celebrate while mourning the absence of her parents. She didn’t want Haley to feel that sadness either. So she avoided it. Classic Libra paralysis, but make it traumatic.
But then the experiment cracked her wide open. She looked at herself in the mirror and said ok, we’re doing this. She picked up the phone. Called her parents. Told them she and Haley were engaged. Their big engagement news met with a painfully neutral,
“Thanks for letting us know.”
Pilar’s dad
Yeah… not exactly a confetti moment. But Pilar wasn’t letting it slide this time. She dug in, heart on her sleeve.
“You guys say you love me, but these are just words. I need to understand what does that mean?”
Pilar asked, straight up.
And the answer is a gut punch wrapped in religion. They said they couldn’t “endorse” her relationship with Haley. So Pilar drew a line. Told them she couldn’t keep trying to earn love with conditions. Went no contact. It was quiet. It was heavy. But then, months later, they reached out again. The door isn’t wide open yet, but it’s cracked. And now, Pilar and Haley are actually planning to meet with them together. Soft courage. Deep love. Massive growth.
Meanwhile, Haley had a trial marriage with Magan and caught some feelings. Pilar clocked it. The first week back was rough. Long talks. Raw emotion. But Haley showed up. Over and over. She made it clear that it had always been Pilar. That was all she ever needed to hear.
Pilar had her own mess with Kyle. Club kisses. Off-camera vibes. On-camera regret. She spiraled. Questioned everything. Haley steadied her. Reminded her who she is. Held space. Hugged her heart. They hashed it out for hours and came back stronger.
By the reunion, they were untouchable. Pilar’s spinning music again and owning her story. Haley’s planning a park wedding with an ordained bestie and a playlist ready to go. They talk about it all the time. Could be next spring. Could be this weekend. Either way, they’re already all in.
As for Magan? Respect. Not friends. No drama. Just gratitude for the growth.
These two are proof that queer love isn’t just about romance. It’s about bravery. Boundaries. And choosing each other when the world tells you not to. The wife era is coming. But the soulmates part? Already done.
Together 2.5 years: YES 💍
Source: Netflix
Kyle: @inkybinky231 & Bridget: @bridgetmatloff
These two rolled in giving quirky queer artist couple meets soft domestic chaos. Kyle wanted marriage. Weekly rituals, shared finances, long-term stability, the whole gay dream. Bridget loved Kyle to bits but wasn’t sure why the government needed to be involved. Marriage felt… unnecessary. And so, the ultimatum was served.
Bridget jumped into her trial marriage with Ashley and accidentally unlocked a whole new version of herself. Domestic, co-planning meals, team vibes. Meanwhile, Kyle paired with Pilar, and things got flirty fast. Like, kissing-in-the-club level flirty. Yeah. That happened. Off camera. And Kyle didn’t exactly handle it like a pro. Cue vague explanations, tension, and Bridget seriously considering glassblowing over girlfriend-blowing-it.
But to their credit, they worked through it. The club kiss became a turning point. They realized they were both a little too chill, a little too avoidant, and needed to stop vibe-checking each other and start using actual words. Growth.
By the end, Kyle got down on one knee.
They’ve since moved in together and now live a life built on Sunday check-ins, monthly date experiments, and zero grand gestures – just low-key love, done right. Kyle’s mom is an instant fan favorite. She’s already planning a party. Pilar cried when she spoke. We cried too. Give her a spin-off! 👏🏻
And while the show didn’t air all their best scenes (including the glassblowing date and Bridget’s own proposal), what matters is where they landed. Stronger. Softer. Fully engaged. No secrets.
They’ve got desert wedding dreams, probably in Joshua Tree, just the close circle. No hard feelings toward the cast, but this day’s gonna be sacred. Art, desert wind, and an LGBTQ+ couple from The Ultimatum: Queer Love that actually communicates.
Kyle and Pilar are back on good terms. Kyle and Marie are surprise besties. Bridget and Ashley are still vibing. No drama. Just a couple of creatives who took a detour through reality TV and found their way home.
And honestly? They’re the low-key power couple we didn’t see coming. You know, the ones who quietly build a life, skip the spectacle, and still somehow give you all the feels.
Season 2 gave us everything: matching tattoos, soft breakups, and sapphic WWE energy. But the story doesn’t end at the reunion. Whether they’re planning weddings, healing from heartbreak, or just vibing in their main character era, these queers are still growing, glowing, and giving us reasons to care.
And if watching all this unfold made you feel a little something—yeah, same—maybe it’s time to explore your own love timeline. Whether you’re looking for a first date, a forever love, or just someone to match playlists with, download HER and find your own queer chaos (minus the Netflix cameras).
Until then ❤️ Love loud, choose boldly, swipe thoughtfully, and never reuse the playlist.
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