Are you tired of the endless wastelands of swiping? Do you wish that you could find free lesbian chats that led to faster, more authentic connections? Well, save your other two wishes because HER is here to provide you with all your lesbian community needs too.
Here at HER, we put community at the forefront of everything that we do. We have over 35 communities in the app where you can connect with other sapphic cuties about everything from recipes & food trends to what latest queer bodice-ripper you should read next.
Think of it as a lesbian chat room experience, but multiplied to be even better! And did we mention that this is absolutely free?
With no shortage of people, chatting is instant
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Join one of our vibrant 35+ LGBTQIA+ community groups.
Connect and chat with like-minded friends and partners in your area.
We’re no strangers to the grind of trying to find your match online. Let me guess: you’ve swiped to your heart’s content, thrown your phone in irritation because of the constant paywalling, and then, when you *finally* think you’ve made a connection, they send you one message of “wyd” before ghosting into the great beyond, never to be seen again? Ghosts are best left in October, and that’s why HER has created a safe platform so that lesbian chats have never been easier.
Our innovative sapphic app allows you to customize every little aspect of your profile so the most authentic version of yourself can shine brightly from day one. Unlike the hetero focused mainstream apps, HER allows you to easily add what kind of hobbies you’re interested in, connect your Spotify & Instagram account, and a whole bunch of other fun facts and pins to your profile that make you, well, you!
Conversation has never been easier. Tongue-tied about how to message someone once you’ve hit it off in our lesbian forums? (We get it- we also forget how to talk to girls. They’re just so 😭). Never fear! Let us be your wing-woman to guide you through your chats with our icebreaker questions that we wrote for you to take the pressure off. Video chatting, phone calls, and in real life connections will follow, smooth as butter.
If you’re like us, then internet safety is at the top of your mind. The safety of our lesbian community means everything to us, and we want to do all that we can to make sure that the connections that you’re making with lesbian babes are authentic and genuine.
Not to brag, but our Trust & Safety team is pretty incredible. If you’re ever feeling uncomfortable about messages that someone is sending, believe that the profile that you’re chatting with maybe actually isn’t a crypto-genius super model millionaire, or feel like someone is in the community that shouldn’t be, you can report or block a profile at any time. Each and every report is investigated by our safety team so that we can take action to keep the mischief off the app.
Want to take that extra step to make sure the new lesbian of your dreams that you’re chatting up is authentic? Be sure to peep their profile to make sure they have the check mark ✅ next to their profile name. Accounts that have the checkmark have been verified by our amazing team of humans so that you can feel safe making connections with genuine folks. Did we mention that verified profiles get x4 more matches? (Hint hint: make sure you’re verified too!)
Sometimes you just need a break. Or maybe, you’re back in your hometown for the holidays and you are NOT looking for your exes to try and connect. We totally understand you wanting to keep things a bit private. This is why we also have an easy to enable Incognito Mode that lets you only be seen by the folks that you want to be seen by. It’s 100% in your control, queen.
“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”
“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”
“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”
Not to brag, but HER is the #1 app when it comes to free lesbian chats. It’s where sapphics can create long-lasting connections – from friendship to finding your forever person who understands and accepts you just the way you are (because you are seriously the best).
With over 35 Community groups to choose from, HER offers a safe and supportive space for users to engage socially with lesbian and queer folks without the intrusive hetero gaze found on other mainstream social apps. Whether you’re looking for sapphic friendly events or advice on how to strike up a conversation with the hot new bartender at Walker’s Pint, there’s always a chat to be had that you can dive right into. Our in-app lesbian community alone has thousands of members and hundreds of posts every day from other queer people looking to connect, hang out, and get advice.
Looking for something a bit more specific to chat about? We hear you! Head to our Recipes & Foodies community to find the best vegan dessert hacks. Are you an artist looking to make lesbian connections with other creators? We’ve got you covered with our Artists, Musicians, & Creators community.
Whether you want to show off your adorable new pug puppy in our Pets & Animals forum or strike up a convo with a witchy babe who can tell you all about your big three in our Astrology, Horoscopes, & Tarot chat, your lesbian connections await. (Did we mention that we keep these safe too? Our amazing team of volunteer moderators look after our communities to make sure that anything rude, bullying, or inappropriate is removed).
Absolutely! The lesbian community has enough to worry about- safety while they’re chatting shouldn’t be one of them!
With communities that are rigorously moderated by our kick-ass volunteers, our free verified profile feature, an easy-to-use reporting system, and additional safety features like Incognito Mode, we want your lesbian messaging experience to be completely in your control.
When you’re with us, we’ve got your back so that you can connect with folks without breaking a sweat. <3
We make the process a piece of cake! With our incredibly detailed profile options, you can be clear about exactly what you’re looking for.
We have fun facts, adorable profile pins that let you declare causes close to your heart & your vibes, your Spotify top artists, and more.
This makes it easy to see if the lesbians you meet on the app are a good fit. We also have over 35 lesbian communities where you can post, for free, to make authentic lesbian connections about whatever special interests make your heart sing.
Never fear, HER is here! We know that everyone is different, and that’s part of what makes the lesbian community such a vibrant and beautiful one.
So, we created over 35 communities so that no matter what you’re interested in, you’ll find chats with folks who feel the same way.
Whether you feel at home in our Movies & TV Shows community because you are FINALLY catching up on The L-Word, or whether the uplifting memes & inspiration in our Good Vibes Only community is more your speed, lesbian chats await you.
