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Unless you’re newly single, you already know mature lesbian dating is no easy feat. And we’re not talking NYT crossword difficulty here — we’re talking Mount Everest hard. As if the dating pool wasn’t already small enough when you’re dating at age 40+… Now throw being a lesbian or queer person into the mix and those are some seriously shallow waters, my friend.

Don’t even get us started if you’re out at a bar… Not only do you have to hope that the person you’re approaching swings that way, but it’s also a gamble of whether or not they’re taken (or more likely, married). Even though meeting people “organically” still happens (sometimes), it’s so much easier to go online these days.

Luckily, there’s a new mature lesbian dating app in town that makes it easy to connect with like-minded women. HER is a free app and it’s the place to be for lesbians over 40 who are looking to meet other mature lesbians for friendship, dating, and maybe even “the one.” Yes, that means no creepy married men on hetero-geared dating apps popping into your DMs — winning




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If you’ve found yourself over 40 and recently back in the dating game, then there’s no better place to be than HER. It’s one of the best older lesbian dating websites in the world because it connects you with other LGBTQ+ folk, while weeding out everything you don’t want. That’s right — it’s time to kiss all those unsolicited pics from straight men goodbye for good. Hallelujah.

Whether you’d love to date other lesbians the same age as you or you’re looking to meet women who are a bit more mature, finding your partner is easy on HER. There are also plenty of younger lesbians interested in dating an older lesbian on the app as well. Truthfully, nothing’s off the table when you have millions of gorgeous, single lesbians from all over the world at your fingertips with the click of a button.

A Personal Forum Made for Older Queer Women

Are the vast majority of your friends all married or coupled up? That can make mature lesbian dating over 40 feel particularly lonely… Because, let’s face it, the last thing you need is a wingman or dating advice from your married friends.

But the good news is, you’re not alone! Whether you’re looking for mature black lesbian dating, poly dating, lipstick lesbian dating, or lesbian dating over 50, your community is waiting for you on HER’s forums that are moderated 24/7. They’re full of older queer women chatting about everything from celesbian crushes to living abroad to mindfulness and self-care.

You can share stories with a community of mature women about your worst dates, online dating success stories, heartbreak, and much more. On HER, there are thousands of women who just get you — because hey, they also know all about the hardships of lesbian dating over 40.

Anytime you feel a connection with a woman in the group forums, you have the option to jump over into a private chat to get to know each other more. You never know what could happen. The worst case scenario is you spend the night chatting to a gorgeous queer woman while you sip a beer with OITNB on in the background. On the other hand, you might just meet the person you end up with for life.

Meet LGBTQ+ Women in Their 40s, 50s and Beyond

As the saying goes — “Life begins at 40.” That means there’s never been a better time to meet your person. Whether you’re in your 40’s, 50’s or beyond, finding a like-minded LGBTQ+ woman — or two, or three, or four for our poly lesbians (but hey, who’s counting?) — is fun when lesbians over 40 come together in a safe community to chat, date, attend local HER-sponsored events, and so much more.

When it comes to lesbian dating over 40, remember to just be yourself! There are plenty of other queer women looking to meet mature lesbians just like you. So, it’s time to delete the straight apps and join a movement that’s all about LGBTQ+ empowerment. Download HER for free to meet over 8 million lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer women today.