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Sep 17, 2024
Our groundbreaking new survey of over 2,000 LGBTQ+ sapphics reveals what many already know: being bisexual comes with its own unique set of struggles, triumphs, and eyebrow-raising moments. From “Bi Panic” to the constant need to come out (again and again), our findings highlighted below showcase the invisible but very real challenges faced by bisexual sapphics navigating their sexuality in both straight and LGBTQ+ spaces.
In response to what we heard from our users in this survey, we have officially launched our Bi Panic campaign! We are continuing to uplift and support the amazing bisexual community by partnering with Capri Campeau and Ashley Whitfield to answer the biggest Bisexual Panic Questions. We are also committing to gift a FREE Premium Feature to all bisexual users in the app on Bisexual Visibility Day: September 23rd, 2024. (Did we mention that it’s FREE!?)
In a disheartening revelation, 40% of bisexuals reported feeling invisible even within LGBTQ+ spaces. This underscores the need for more inclusive representation and visibility for bisexual sapphics within the larger community.
Add to that the 30% who have had to explain the difference between being bi and pansexual, and it’s clear that understanding bisexuality is still a work in progress for many.
A striking 27% of bisexual sapphics shared that they’ve experienced multiple “coming out” moments depending on who they are dating at the time and have to continually educate and fight for the visibility of their true sexuality.
Almost half (48%) of bisexuals are tired of being asked “Who Do You Really Like More?”, underscoring the frustrations of having their sexuality policed by others.
More than one-third (34%) of bisexual respondents revealed they’ve been labeled “greedy” or “confused” — a stereotype that simply refuses to die.
Over 28% of bisexual women said they’ve been accused of being more likely to cheat, with these accusations coming particularly from the lesbian community. Trust issues and harmful assumptions are still roadblocks that many bisexual sapphics must navigate.
Our survey revealed that 48.3% of bisexuals have been assumed to be straight or gay based on their partner. This perception continues to fuel the pressures of coming out and continually educating the world on their identity to not lose part of who they are.
While only 3% of lesbians find themselves questioning their sexuality, bisexuals are twice as likely to face this challenge. In fact, 1 in 10 bisexuals (10.82%) shared that they regularly question their own sexuality.
38% of bisexuals admitted feeling awkward when dating or socializing, especially when their sexuality is called into question. That “bi panic” you’ve heard about? It’s not just a meme.
32% of bisexual respondents said they seamlessly adapt their dating style across genders. Whether dating a woman, a man, or anyone in between, bisexual sapphics are adjusting their approach and styles depending on the partner they are dating.
Our newest survey paints a vivid picture of the complexities bisexual sapphics face in their relationships, communities, and personal journeys. As attitudes evolve, so must the conversations around bisexuality. It’s time to acknowledge that being bi isn’t just a phase or a preference — it’s a valid, full-fledged identity. And frankly, the world has a LOT of catching up when it comes to understanding this identity.
All of us here at HER stand committed to creating spaces where bisexual women, alongside other LGBTQ+ folks, can feel not just seen and heard, but celebrated! Not to brag, but we have over 15 million users in 114 countries- and over 30% of our incredible user base identifies as Bisexual. Unearthing the experiences that bisexual folks face whilst also providing support and a safe space to connect is a huge priority for us. This is what inspired us to launch our Bi Panics campaign and commit to giving each and every one of our bisexual users a F R E E Premium Feature on Bi Visibility Day– September 23rd, 2024.
Robyn Exton
Bisexuals: we want to make sure that you get the boost of visibility that you deserve! Don’t forget to add the bisexual pin to your profile on September 23rd so that you can get your free boost and 10x the likes! Happy Bisexual Week, y’all!
Robyn Exton
Chicago-based community manager, content writer, and professional cupid who’s still in her emo era. When she's not hosting HER virtual events, you’ll find her creating oddly specific playlists on Spotify and hitting up way too many concerts with her partner. Catch her where the music’s loud, the food is cheesy, and the eyeliner’s smudged just right!
