Robyn is the CEO & Founder of HER. Find her on Twitter.
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Sep 29, 2023
If you’re signed up and ready to swipe on our lovely queer space, you will need the best tips to make your profile stand out. In fact, a 2019 report stated that 55% of Americans met their serious partner through a dating app! So the chances of meeting your next boo with us are pretty up there.
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Why is having a good profile important? Well, when we’re talking about meeting people online, first impressions matter; they are the most important thing! People will choose to connect based on what they perceive from your profile. And we’re not saying only to use your hottest photos, but to reflect your true personality when you log in on HER.
It might seem like some expert craftsmanship, but we’ll gladly break it down for you!
Let’s get down to the nitty-gritty of crafting a dating profile that will make heads turn in the queer dating scene. Your profile is like a window into your fabulous world, so let’s ensure it’s authentic but also dazzling and sparkling ✨ Luckily, HER walks you through the process, so you’re not alone!
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And if that’s not enough, here’s a complete guide that you can follow to create a breathtaking profile that will get you tons of potential partners!
Facts don’t lie, hun! 50% of the young, single crowd says that if someone shares their hobbies and interests in their bio, they will swipe right. And guess what? Over half of them, 51% to be precise, are all ears when a profile spills the deets on someone’s personality. It’s all about letting your inner self shine, and that’s when the magic happens, honey!
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Let it all hang out, whether it’s your obsession with collecting vintage postcards or your secret talent for imitating iconic celebrities. This bio is your rainbow calling card; you want it to be as vibrant and unforgettable as you are. Some niche advice from us is:
Your profile is a visual journey through your life, and here’s how to pick a carefully crafted, fool-proof selection of 6 photos to light those matches on fire.
Your writing style is like your signature scent, leaving a lasting impression. If you’re a fan of emojis, throw them like confetti. They add a playful and expressive touch to your bio. If you’re more of a wordsmith, let your sentences flow like a love poem. Use vivid language to paint pictures and create a connection that’s as deep as the ocean.
Remember, it’s not only what you say but how you say it.
This is about the gems that make you shine brighter than a disco ball. Let’s talk about those quirks and passions that set you apart in the best way possible. Maybe you’re a wizard in the kitchen, whipping up culinary creations that could make Kristen Kish blush. Or perhaps you have an encyclopedic knowledge of LGBTQIA+ history, making you the go-to guru for queer trivia.
Source: Forbes
Flaunt these talents, darling! They’re the pieces of the puzzle that make up your fabulous self. Try to sum them up in catchy, one-sentence terms, and you’ve got a great addition to your profile.
Perfection is overrated. Your peculiarities, your idiosyncrasies, they’re what make you beautifully imperfect. Embrace them, own them, and let them be a beacon of your authenticity. Maybe it’s the way you snort when you laugh or your unapologetic love for Glee. These are the things that make you, well, YOU!
At the end of the day, we all want someone who will love us for who we are. Keeping up with appearances is hard, and posing as a perfect human might even intimidate some people.
Note: These tips are mainly for folks looking to date. If you want a one-night stand or something casual, we recommend you simply state it on your profile and show off your best selfies! Being honest about your intentions from the beginning is hot.
A great way to show your sense of humor alongside random but charming facts about yourself.
Bonus points if you phrase it like a 2000s rom-com intro.
The key is making the con cute and quirky, like a beige flag.
List all of the greatest achievements that make you a great partner.
And there you have it! Making your profile on HER will be easy peasy with these super helpful tips. It doesn’t matter if your bio is two sentences or a paragraph or if you choose a picture where you’re wearing your high school sweatpants.
The most important thing is staying true to yourself in an online world where it’s so easy to pretend otherwise.
HER is a safe space for the LGBTQIA+ community to find love and friendship through the classic swipe method, awesome forums, and in-app events. So if you’re trying the dating app way, come to us, and we promise you’ll have a good time 🌈😉
Robyn is the CEO & Founder of HER. Find her on Twitter.
