If you’re like us you couldn’t help but notice that the support for black lesbian dating just isn’t there. We got tired of our amazing black sapphic community running into the same issues – so we built out platform with acceptance at the top of the list.
Come and be a part of the world’s largest and most active community of black lesbians, sapphics, feminists, and queers.
Create a profile that truly reflects who you are with endless customization options on HER, the dating app committed to inclusivity. We have a strict zero tolerance policy against all forms of hate speech and fetishism, ensuring a safe and welcoming space for meaningful LGBTQIA+ connections.
With no shortage of people, your perfect match awaits.
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Join one of our vibrant 35+ LGBTQIA+ community groups.
Connect and chat with like-minded friends and partners in your area.
Have you wasted an endless number of swipes on hetero apps and websites on folks who just turned out to not even care about the same causes as you? Or even worse, folks who ask insulting, weird questions without even trying to understand you? We got tired of seeing our vibrant black sapphic community pushed to the side on other dating apps. So, we created a safe space where black lesbians, along with other LGBTQIA+ individuals can chat, connect, and just be their authentic selves, without having to be met with micro-aggression filled nonsense. That attitude won’t cut it here.
HER is the world’s largest (and while we wanna stay humble, might we say, the GOAT) dating and community-building platform for black lesbian, non-binary, queer, sapphic, dyke, and feminist folks across the globe with over 15 million users in more than 114 countries.
Our sapphic & queer dating app allows you to customize every little aspect of your dating profile so the most authentic version of yourself can shine brightly from day one. Unlike the hetero focused mainstream apps, HER allows you to easily add what style of relationship you are searching for, your sexual orientation, and a whole bunch of other fun facts and pins to your profile that make you, well, you!
You’ll find a supportive community for black queer folks, where users can connect with understanding, non-judgmental folks who share similar life experiences, causes, and goals for life. Make outstanding personal connections, ask for advice, get the best beauty tips, and just generally be the unique you that you are.
HER isn’t just that “app for lesbians”, though. We are so much more! Created by sapphics, for sapphics, HER is a game changing space that is inclusive to the LGBTQIA+ community and all of the colors of the rainbow within it. If you’re queer, that’s enough, and you’re welcome here.
We truly believe that every connection made on HER should be meaningful and fulfilling. We aren’t the app that’s made to be deleted. HER is the queer dating and community app made to help you find your person, your queer crew of friends, events that you can’t miss, and fun, genuine conversations that will make you want to stick around and make yourself at home sweet home.
With customizable profiles, you can express yourself authentically and showcase your identity, sexuality and interests with the pride pins feature, such as QPOC, QTPOC, dyke, stud, femme, and so many more.
At HER, we genuinely understand the needs of the black community and we have built our app with those needs in mind. Our safety team actively monitors and intervenes to protect users from things like bullying, hate speech, and disrespectful content, ensuring a respectful and safer environment for all.
Join HER today and experience the difference for yourself! The app is free for iOS and Android.
“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”
“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”
“We swiped right even though we lived 120 miles away…If I had to do it all over again, I would. I found my best friend on HER.”
HER is so much more than just a dating app. It’s where black queer folks can create long-lasting connections – from dating to friendship to finding your forever person who understands and accepts you just the way you are (because you’re truly amazing).
With over 35 Community groups to choose from, HER offers a safe and supportive space for users to engage socially with fellow queer and sapphic folks without the intrusive hetero, fetish-y gaze found on other mainstream dating apps.
Whether you’re looking for black-owned businesses and events or advice on how to shoot your shot with the cute girl at the coffee shop, there’s always a conversation to be had that you can sink your teeth into. Our in-app Queer Women of Color community alone has thousands of members and hundreds of posts every day from other folks looking to connect, hang out, hook up, and get advice.
These communities are designed to be inclusive and accessible for all of the amazing members of our community. Our safety-led approach to content moderation on the app is even amped up with a team of diverse- identifying moderators keeping an eye on the content in that space.
