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Dec 09, 2015
The lesbian Diaries is a psychological deconstruction of lesbian dating as well as a look at the overarching culture and problems currently being experienced by the scene. We are looking at the pitfalls of dating and mistakes that many lesbians make in the process of selecting partners and giving them tips on how to improve their approach. In addition we are looking at some of the negative trends in LGBT culture that have emerged over the years. Now that gay marriage is legal – we need to turn our attentions to other aspects of the community to ensure positive development in all aspects as well as improvements in the infrastructure of our scene.
Yes, I was definitely shocked to hear about the rapid decline of lesbian bars globally – there are only 4 left in NYC and 1 in San Francisco – that was pretty sad and shocking. I was also shocked to find out that there is such a thing called TERF lesbians who are seeking to exclude transgender people from the community, as well the increasing trend of racism in the scene.
HER, a judgment-free chat space filled with queer folks who are dying to meet YOU. Because of HER’s safety and trust team, we do not tolerate any gender discrimination—making this space much safer than your typical online lesbian chat room.
If anyone is found out to be TERF, we will block and ban them from the platform. So if you’re lesbian and looking for anyone…YOUR PEOPLE ARE HERE (in a safe and TERF-free zone).
I’m concerned that the future community will be so separated by labels that lesbians of all types won’t become united. This would lessen the number of women out there and available or the chance of meeting a possible partner. Also I am concerned that the current focus on looks is overriding looking at deeper qualities, and that women may not take the time to re-evaluate their approach to dating. Interracial dating seems to be a huge issue on the lesbian scene – in that not many ladies do or want to engage in it. This is a far cry from the heterosexual world.
I’m excited that being gay or lesbian isn’t frowned upon as much as in the past. In many places throughout the world, we are being accepted and are gaining the ability to be free about who we are and who we love, in public. There is more work to be done. However, we have started the move forward which I believe will continue.
Potentially we could look at further elements, but this would depend on the performance of this first documentary.
The documentary will be available on the 10th of December at www.lesbiandiaries.com and you can “like” our facebook page at www.facebook.com/lezbiandiariesfilm
