I like going for walks, I tend to write long messages and you will be informed if I meet a cat on my way to the grocery store.
Cat mum, Birkenstock enthusiast, and sapphic seeker of true love.
Come hang out and meet my plants.
💕 Knitter by night and skateboarder by day, searching for someone who’s down to ride the ups and downs of life.
Join a safe space where queer women, nonbinary and trans sapphics come to meet, chat and flirt, all with the goal of finding their person.
Step into the sapphic utopia of your dreams! Build authentic LGBTQIA+ connections and meet your forever people.
Created by and for queer folks, HER takes the guesswork out of queer and lesbian dating so you can focus on finding the one.
With no shortage of sapphic people, your perfect match awaits
Apple Editor’s Choice 2020, 2019
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HER was the first app to launch that exclusively focussed on the needs of queer, bisexual and lesbian dating. While there were over 40 apps for other sexualities, not a single dating app existed for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary people until there was HER. Eight years later, HER has made over 300 million lesbian matches, thousands of queer marriages and hundreds of lil babies.
HER is the world’s largest (and most iconic) dating and community-building platform for lesbian, bisexual, queer women and gender-non-conforming icons worldwide. Whilst most heteronormative apps focus on the experience of cis men (the people those apps make their money from), HER is designed to focus exclusively on the needs of queer women, non-binary and trans people.
We have features to express the unique parts of sapphic culture that mean the most to you and your identity. We have community spaces to connect with other people like you. And we create a safe space amongst other sapphics to be yourself and focus on what’s important to you while finding your partner.
With over 13 million users in more than 114 countries, you can absolutely bet that your perfect match — or perfect matches — are only a few clicks away. So, whether you’re looking for a partner or hoping to make new friends, HER has something for you.
HER cares, and I mean really cares. Our unique in-app features reflect that. Our queer and lesbian dating app allows you to customize every little aspect of your dating profile so the most authentic version of yourself can shine brightly from day one.
Unlike the hetero apps, HER allows you to easily add your pronouns, gender identity, sexual orientation, and a litany of other fun facts and pins to your profile that make you, well, you!
We go a step further than just giving you the option to list your basic lifestyle, like whether you’re sober, religious, or want kids someday. We also allow you to add Pride Pins to your profile so you can easily let potential matches know whether you’re QPOC, T4T, chapstick or masc lesbians, intersex, and more. You can even add things to your profile, like your love language, or include one (or a few) of our free Political Pride Pins to filter your feed according to the nitty-gritty social issues you care about the most!
The best part? All of our core features are free and will remain free. Like, forever. That said, if you’re ever looking to upgrade your experience and take it to the next level, HER Premium offers one-of-a-kind features like incognito mode, rewinding profiles you accidentally swiped left on, seeing everyone who’s viewed you, and unlimited swipes.
Join us today and discover what awaits you on the App Store or the Play Store.
“The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew. So did she…I am so grateful for HER bringing us together.”
“It all started with a hello and now, I am married to the most gorgeous woman in the world.”
“I knew the moment I saw Sarah’s photo I was interested in them. Luckily, they felt the same way!”
HER has become the most prominent player in the queer dating app scene, so you can rest assured that this platform and team are looking out for your unique queer needs. With more people comes great responsibility and our Trust and Safety team works around the clock to improve HER’s safety measures and ensure the safety and well-being of our community.
We have a world-class Trust and Safety team, including moderators who ensure everyone on HER is treated with respect. On top of this, users are verified and authenticated on the app by connecting their profiles with existing social media accounts.
If you ever come across something that just isn’t sitting quite right, flag or report it so that our team can assess the situation and remove any scammers, transphobes, or fake celebrity profiles from the app.
