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How HER is different than the other lesbian dating apps

Robyn Exton

Jul 23, 2023

How HER is different than the other lesbian dating apps
  • Are you trying to get into queer online dating but have absolutely no idea where to start? There are so many dating apps for lesbians and queer people these days it can be hard to know which one to download. 

    Whether you are looking for long-term or casual connections, polyamorous or monogamous relationships, HER is the best unique FLINTA dating app for you.

    HER is the top lesbian dating app for queer and bisexual women, trans folks, and non-binary people.  

    With over 13 million registered lifetime HER users, we have gained global recognition as one of the leading platforms to connect and meet like-minded women in LGBTQ+ community. Let me tell you why HER is the only lesbian dating app you’ll ever need.

    What makes HER unique?

    HER is a unique sapphic dating app that was built by queer people for queer people. These days it can be hard to know which brands are truly aligned with the LGBTQ+ community, especially in the face of discrimination and hate. 

    You can trust that HER will always prioritize the needs of queer and trans people to continue to create affirming and positive queer online dating experiences for everyone. 

    Your online safety is important to us, which is why we have a world-class trust and safety team, including moderators who ensure everyone on HER is treated with respect. On top of this, each user is verified and authenticated before using the app by connecting their profiles with an existing social media account.

    Once you download the app, you will be walked through an onboarding process of answering a series of questions, including pronouns, gender identity, sexual orientation, smoking and drinking preferences, birthday, astrological sign (if that’s your thing), relationship status, and what you’re looking for. 

    You also have the option of selecting your interests, such as plants, fashion, DIY, gaming, witchy stuff, and more. Answering these questions to the extent that you feel comfortable will help optimize your experience at HER and ensure you get the most out of the app!

    How does HER compare against other lesbian dating apps?

    HER was created with queer, trans, and non-binary people in mind—specifically women. Our users are celebrated for their full identity and aren’t confined to narrow definitions of sex, sexuality, and gender. 

    You can use filters to select specific genders, sexualities, and preferences, so you can finally find the people you’ve been looking for.

    HER also has many features that other lesbian dating apps don’t, including Thirst Mode, Speed Dating, and Community Events. 

    Source: HER

    Thirst Mode is a unique feature that allows you to see all of your likes, gives you unlimited swipes, and boosts your profile to the top of the browse section. This guarantees that you’ll get the most matches possible when you’re thirsting. 

    HER also offers online community events and speed dating to build all types of connections with LGBTQ+ people across the world. We also have forums on the app where lesbians, bisexuals, and trans folks can discuss things, form connections over common interests, and/or meet up with folks in your area.

    Is HER a trans-inclusive dating app?

    Everyone deserves to feel safe online dating, including transgender people. We know that transgender women, trans men, and non-binary people have always been rich in the lesbian community. That is why there is no place for TERFs (trans-exclusionary radical feminists) on HER. 

    As a queer-owned and operated dating app, we are not afraid to stand up for our values and what we believe in. We will always speak out against bigotry, including calling out any problematic behavior we see from other people or brands. 

    Trans-inclusivity is central to our values and culture here at HER, and we will always stand with the trans and non-binary community against any and all transphobia.

    HER is the go-to app for women who love women and other queer folks who are looking to date queer, transgender, intersex, lesbian, or bisexual women. 

    If you are looking for a dating app where you can be your full authentic self and meet other LGBTQ+ people for dates, relationships, or community, look no further. 

    What are you waiting for? Download HER today. 

    Robyn Exton

    Robyn is the CEO & Founder of HER. Find her on Twitter.

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